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First date: who should pay?

A man heading out to dinner on a first date with someone he met online asks whether he should pay, as he was raised to, or whether splitting the bill is the better modern approach.

Closed45 people voted(45 from Reddit)

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45 people voted

  1. The one who asked

    24.4%11 votes

  2. The man

    31.1%14 votes

  3. Split it

    44.4%20 votes

β“˜ Includes 45 votes imported from Reddit comments Β· not scored for Hunch

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What Reddit says

Based on 200 comments Β· Oct 9, 2026 Β· r/AskMen

Each imported vote keeps its commenter's words. You'll find them among the reasons below, marked β€œFrom Reddit”.

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